You can learn and make smart, disciplined and kind decisions. The Sounds and Sights of UNCONDITIONAL LoveĬonditional love conveys the message I see and hear you. Unconditional love conveys the message I see you and hear you. Parents catch success and teachable moments. Typically, conditional love is used by parents to reinforce children’s helpful, appropriate or virtuous behaviors. Parents love their children no matter what!Ĭonditional means subject to, implying, or dependent upon a condition. Unconditional needed repair.Īccording to the online Merriam-Webster dictionary, unconditional means no limits in any way or complete and absolute. I was fairly on the ball by giving her love when she behaved as I wanted. Regrettably, in her younger years, I operated primarily from conditional love. They are all living elsewhere!įrom our daughter, Kelly and through the journey I describe in Love Her As She Is: Lessons from a Daughter Stolen by Addictions I learned to love unconditionally. As my mentor, Gwendolyn Jasma used to say “You need to betray your children in some way or they will never leave home!” And I did. There might actually be a problem if we were perfect parents, instead of good enough parents.
They were when I was also letting myself down not doing a good job of unconditionally loving myself. Absolutely, there have been times I have let my children down in the love department. If all children have a moral right to be loved, then I and I imagine you have let them down. Patricia with hubby, Les and children, Kelly, Ben and KatieĬhildren have a moral right to be loved.
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